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Showing posts with label intuitive designs blog. Show all posts

Monday, March 12, 2012

Red Envelopes in Feng Shui

Giving red envelopes is an old Chinese custom. They are also known as "lucky money" envelopes and are exchanged during Chinese New Year and for special occasions like weddings, births, etc.
Take one look at my photo, and you know I am not Chinese (my husband is Chinese American). When I give my name I often receive a baffled look and an attempt at spelling, "Hough?", etc. I am reminded of the character Donna Chang in the Seinfeld episode, "The Chinese Woman" during it's sixth season. She imparts some marital advice to George's mother, Estelle, quoting Confucious. When they finally meet, Estelle feels betrayed, "You're not Chinese! I thought I was getting advice from a Chinese woman!"

Luckily, my clients hire me for my expert feng shui advice and pay me for it. I explain that it is traditional to provide payment in a red envelope to the feng shui expert. The red envelope serves as a protection to the feng shui practitioner who is providing sacred knowledge and represents respect and intention from the recipient of the consultation. Any unused red envelope is fine. When you go to the trouble of looking for a red envelope or making one, it helps to set the intention for a successful outcome for your consultation. One to nine envelopes are often presented to the feng shui expert at the time of the consultation.

This meaningful exchange of knowledge and expertise from the feng shui practitioner and payment in a red envelope by the client forms a seal of protection and intention for the desired results. I always feel a strong sense of gratitude and mutual respect between my clients and myself during the exchange of the red envelope.

Thursday, September 1, 2011

Gratitude

Photo by Katy Ho
 Health is the greatest gift, contentment the greatest wealth, faithfulness the best relationship.
~ Buddha

In the aftermath of Hurricane Irene, I am feeling so grateful for the wonderful community I live in where good friends & neighbors joined together to share from their hearts & homes! ~kathleen

Saturday, August 13, 2011

Everything Happens for a Purpose

In times of reflection, I need only listen and the still voice within always responds. And here's a reliable favorite from my bookshelf: The Spiritual Teachings of MARCUS AURELIUS by Mark Forstater~

Good Vision
Observe carefully and you will see that everything that happens happens for a purpose. 

I don't just mean the actual unfolding of events in time, but the way these events carry meaning, as if some guiding hand were giving each event its own significance. 

Continue to observe yourself, and follow this same principle: that all your actions must be good~good meaning the correct way a man should act. Express this goodness in everything you do. MARCUS AURELIUS (The Spiritual Teachings of Marcus Aurelius by Mark Forstater)


Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Feng Shui~Perfect Porches & Patios

Outdoor rooms are such a lovely escape and asset for any home! I lived in Portola Valley, California, on a mountain for the first year of my marriage and we dined by candlelight most evenings on our deck overlooking the San Francisco skyline. Hummingbirds were among the regulars seeking nectar from our potted petunias in an array of floral bloom.

Our east coast home has a porch which I enjoy, especially on a cool evening in the summer, but I miss that view from my mountain home! My friend, Meg, lives in Calabasas, California and says her family enjoys their outdoor room year-round. They recently renovated their patio with Dublin sandstone pavers, new furnishings, and plantings. The space provides a perfect enclave for family, friends, and their rescue-dog, Barney.

Outdoor rooms can be as simple as a chaise and potted plant and as elaborate as a deck with a built-in lounge, natural rock, water flowing from water terraces and an infinity pond. Outdoor room expert and internationally renowned landscaped designer, Jamie Durie, entices us with his vision and passion for creating the most gorgeous, and environmentally friendly designs. Visit his website at www.jamiedurie.com for more inspiration on planning your Outdoor Room!
On a recent feng shui consultation, my client asked if we include the porch in the bagua (the energy map that we lay over your floor plan and property site). Here's the simple rule of thumb: any part of the house that shares a roof is included. If a covered patio shares a roof with the house, it is included. Gazebos and patios that are not attached to the house would be included in the overall bagua for the property.

For example, a gazebo might be in the Relationship area of the property but would not be included in the bagua for the house. Enhancements for a gazebo in Relationships would be anything in pairs~two rockers or Adirondack chairs, for example, the colors red, white & pink, flowers, statues and sculptures that symbolize love, and candles.

The bagua is oriented from the entrance of your home or property. The entrance to your property, usually a driveway, is treated in the same way as the front door of the home and is known as "the mouth of chi" where the energy enters.

Many covered porches extend across the front of the house in the areas of Knowledge & Meditation, Career and Helpful People & Travel. A wrap-around porch would be included in several areas of the bagua. Feng shui enhancements are just as necessary for placement and decor for porch and patio areas as they are for interior spaces. If the porch or covered patio extends out from the house it may be considered an enhancement of a particular area of the bagua~Wealth if it is in the far left corner of the home. A water feature like a fountain would be a perfect enhancement in this area and accents in colors of deep purple or green.







Thursday, August 4, 2011

Magic Mirrors~

I love how Designer Eddie Ross took a simple mirror in an octagonal shape (the shape of the feng shui energy map, bagua) and changed it up with an etched monogram, a repurposed knob and a ribbon. This arrangement brings a balance of all the elements: Candlelight (Fire), Mirror (Water), Plant (Wood), Planter (Earth) and Crystal Sphere (Metal). My favorite blue is on the wall~See How-To's at his site. 
Mirrors are used to energize a missing area, expand a space, bring in natural light, reflect a view of nature, double whatever is reflected (watch out for clutter, a stack of unpaid bills or garbage and other images you would not want to magnify!), to activate chi and deflect negative energy (small mirrors can be hidden behind furniture and pictures, facing toward unwanted, negative energy "pushing" it away). Mirrors should be one piece of glass reflecting whole images, and not fragmented into pieces which distort the reflection. It is also important that mirrors do not "chop off part of your head".

Mirrors activate chi in a room and although they are fine to hang in a bedroom to bring in light or expand a small room, they should not reflect the bed, a window or the door. The bedroom is a place to rejuvenate and rest. Mirrors stimulate energy and if placed across from the bed they reflect your energy and disturb sleep. Solution: Remove them or cover mirrors at night.  Hang full length mirrors inside a closet. If you have mirrored closets reflecting your bed, hang curtains that you close at night. You will sleep better!

Sunday, July 31, 2011

SACRED SPACE


Each of us have a sacred space within and in the world~the place that feeds the mind, body & soul. My sacred space is to be in nature by a body of water~the ocean is my favorite destination, but I can be happy by a lake, pond or a stream. I cannot go very long without a visit to the beach in any season and feel so fortunate to live 10 miles from the Long Island Sound! What feeds your soul? Take a moment today to be there in your mind or physically if you are able. Namaste!
The Meaning of "Namaste"

The gesture Namaste represents the belief that there is a Divine spark within each of us that is located in the heart chakra. The gesture is an acknowledgment of the soul in one by the soul in another. "Nama" means bow, "as" means I, and "te" means you. Therefore, Namaste literally means "bow me you" or "I bow to you."(yogajournal.com)




 Photos by Kathleen Ho for Intuitive Designs

Friday, July 29, 2011

Feng Shui: Your Stove, Prosperity & Bread Baking 101!

     I mentioned in my previous blog that in feng shui, the kitchen (stove) is one of the most important areas of the home. Symbolically, the stove and burners represent the source of wealth in the home. Use all the burners, keep them clean and make sure they are all working properly to enhance family finances. Even though bread is baked in the oven and not cooked on the cooktop, I am going to share my favorite bread recipe. The wonderful aroma of bread baking and the custom of "breaking bread" with family & friends is one of the simple joys in life. 
     I searched online for a super-easy bread recipe that would have great texture and a golden crust to bake with my "aspiring chef" daughter, Casey. I had no idea that I would be able to bake a bread that is as wonderful to look at with it's golden crust as it is to eat and as good as any bakery around. I first found No Knead Bread on YouTube with NY Times Food Columnist, Mark Bittman, & Sullivan Street Bakery Owner, Jim Lahey. 
     We have been baking it almost every week since! Mix, let it rise, bake. It's that easy. Do not let the 18-hour rising time for the dough deter you. It's beyond worth it! Thank you Jim Lahey for sharing your recipe with the world. 



After 18 hrs

Turn it over into the dutch oven, seam side up

Done

Bon Appetit!
p.s. Change it up: sub 1-2 cups whole wheat, etc. 

I found it again on Martha Stewart's website where you can see the actual recipe and a video of Martha & Jim Lahey.